We’ve made some significant and exciting decisions this month. As I mentioned in a few of my last posts, Boyfriend and I had been becoming progressively more stressed at the prospect of finding our own place and moving house. This, I am cheerful to say, has been resolved. We’re staying where we are!
Last week, after a particularly dismal house viewing, Boyfriend and I were driving home with heavy hearts. It had certainly dawned on me that my standards were miles above my budget, and that we would never find somewhere which met my expectations. All I could think of when I walked around the sad excuse for a 3 bedroom house was “Who the bloody hell designed this?” I also found out that I really dislike Estate Agents. How much money do they make? Why their teeth so white? Why so shiney shoes? Why so spikey hair?
When we finally had the conversation about staying where we were, it was like a weight was lifted. The only real downside to our flat is that it’s small. Boyfriend and I realized that everything else we didn’t like about it could be changed. We’ve decided to spend the money we’d saved for the new house on sprucing the place up; new furniture, a lick of paint and a good day’s cleaning. Our housemate has been really kind and offered to move out, so we even have an extra room for storage (one thing we desperately lacked). I feel like a proper grown up – Which is apt as I turn 24 at the end of the month.
I love birthdays. Some of my favourite childhood memories are around the time of my birthday. To me, your day of birth is the one day in a year where an individual truly deserves to be complete centre of attention, which is fair because everyone gets their day eventually. When I was in Primary Six, my Mum brought in my 25 of my favourite buns (cinnamon Danish) for the whole class. Does anyone remember how strange it was seeing your parents in school when you didn’t expect them to be there?! It was probably the most spectacular day of my life. Everyone was thanking me for the buns (even though I had no idea) and wishing me happy birthday (including our normally extremely strict teacher, Mr. Woods.) I was so proud of my mum for being so damn cool by disrupting class with Danish.
My little sister will be staying with us around Halloween, which is a perfect excuse to decorate the shit out of the flat. If I could buy real ghosts I would. There’s going to be pumpkins and skeletons in every room. The heat’s gonna be full blast, everywhere is gonna smell like cinnamon and only lamps are allowed to be turned on to protect spooky atmosphere. I even bought Barney a doggy pirates’ outfit –When I put his hat on, he tries to bite it and it looks like he’s saying “Arrghhhh” which is cool. For me. Not for him.
All of the above reminds me to be excited for Christmas. I know, some people hate this word, especially around this time of year, but if there’s anything I like more than Halloween, ’tis the season. I adore shopping for gifts; the look of joyous surprise on faces makes me feel like I won Christmas. Then there’s the Christmas market in Belfast city centre – mulled wine and cider, festive music, a huge decorated tree, then later heading home to a warm house to cuddle on the sofa and watch Home Alone. It’s the one time of year I don’t mind the cold.
For the first time in a long time, I feel truly optimistic about the future. I’m not wishing my life away because I really do feel that everything is gonna be OK. Pass over the mulled wine and bring on the trips to IKEA because I am adult-ing like a pro this month.